sabato 15 agosto 2009

How to Be a Classy Teenage Girl

  • Get a lot of information about anything you could possibly imagine: from literature to astronomy, from politics to music. It's really not about how much information you have, it's about your opinions, even about things like abortion or animal rights or gay marriage.
  • Be polite.
  • Learn good manners.
  • Stop swearing. It makes you look ignorant and cheap, not because you're a woman obviously. Swearing is stupid (oh my, you can still say "s**t", "this sucks", "f*** you"...occasionally...but not stuff like "wh***" or "sl**"...just AVOID those terms, ok?)
  • Be fit. A healthy diet and sports make you look acceptable and give you the self-confidence you make lack of.
  • Choose a (one or more) style. Boho-chic, preppy, indie... Wikihow can be a great help with that. You could start with very simple outfits such as jeans (or khaki pants), a polo shirt or a very nice blouse, a simple cardigan, a ring, a necklace, earrings and a few thin bracelets. Further on you can experiment the art of skirts (pencil and tube skirts, if you feel comfortable about them try mini skirts). When you get more confidence the girly style will be like a best friend for you.
  • Don't hesitate! You are a woman, and women, remember, fat or thin, black or white, short or tall, are always outstanding and beautiful.
  • Choose who your friends are. Nobody will tell you who to hang out with, and if you already have a lot of friends whom are not exactly "girly", don't let them down. You are not your friends. It is always good to meet new people though, too.
  • Be wise when shopping. Don't spend all your savings on a new wardrobe. Buy one piece at a time, every now and then. For example, if you really want boat shoes and a blue polo, then next time you go shopping that is what you'll look for.
  • Get motherly. one main feature of women is to give birth to children. Adore children' It's not easy to get along with them but...TRY! Offer to babysit and show how tender you can be.
  • The GGGJ - Good Girls Get a Job. A women in modern society is firstly independent. Prove it, girl! Get a job and complete your goals. If you demonstrate you are mature you'll also achieve more freedom.
  • Be good to men! Enough of stupid ancient conflicts. Women love men and men love women. Don't tolerate sexism. Girlyness has nothing to do with that. Make friends with guys. They can be great to help you catch those different point of views on things...like relationships.
  • Be with the boy that makes you feel like the girl you really are and that loves you for it.
  • Enjoy your girly experience!
  • Remember: “You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her” Learn to love yourselves, sisters!

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